Detail of embroidered piece with miscellaneous elements representing different songs. A large yellow triangle at the bottom reads "Made me queer."

Key to Objects

1 & 2. Birth to Jr. High and Puberty

  • Elton John—Funeral for a Friend & Goodbye Yellow Brick Road (Later: All The Girls Love Alice.) Yellow brick road and gravestone.

  • Lucky Man—Emerson, Lake, and Palmer. Four Leaf Clover.

  • Talking heads— Burning Down the House. House on fire.

  • Michael Jackson—Thriller. MJ’s iconic jacket from the video.

  • Quiet Riot—Cum on Feel the Noize. Mask from video.

  • Janis Joplin—Mercedes Benz. Lyrics: “Oh Lord, won’t you buy me, a Mercedes Benz.”

  • Twisted Sister—We’re Not Gonna Take It. Twisted Sister logo.

  • Cyndi Lauper—Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. Cyndi portrait.

  • Stray Cats—Stray Cat Strut. Fishbone.

  • Dire Straights—Money for Nothing. MTV logo.

  • Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers—Don’t Come Around Here No More. Alice in Wonderland “cake” from the video.

  • Prince—Raspberry Beret. Beret.

  • Pink Floyd— Another Brick In The Wall, Pt. 2. Prism from Dark Side + Lyric: Hey, Teacher!

  • David Lee Roth/Van Halen — Yankee Rose. DLR’s yellow and black spandexed ass from the video.

  • Mickey & Sylvia—Love is Strange. Dirty Dancing Logo + Lyrics: “Sylvia? Yes Mickey? How do you call your loverboy?”

  • Alvin & The Chipmunks-- What’s New Pussycat? Alvin and Simon. Identified with them but not Theodore because he was too wimpy for me.

  • The Kinks—Lola. Lyrics: “LOLA. LA LA LA LA LOLA.”

  • Bon Jovi—You Give Love a Bad Name, I’ll Be There For You, and Blaze of Glory. Slippery when wet sign.

  • Leah Landis—BOYS. Purple shirt and lace-gloved hand from album cover.

  • Motley Crue—Smokin’ In the Boys Room (and later, Kickstart My Heart). Cigarettes and Boys Room sign.

  • Midnight Oil—Beds Are Burning. Lyrics: “The time has come to say fair’s fair.”

  • George Michael—Father Figure (and later, Freedom! ’90). Portrait.

  • Bangles—Walk Like An Egyptian. Album cover.

  • Don Henley—Boys Of Summer. Dead Head sticker on a Cadillac.

  • Aerosmith—Dude (Looks Like a Lady) and Ragdoll. Burly man in a wedding dress.

  • Debbie Gibson—Electric Youth. Spiral neon perfume bottle.

  • Cher—If I Could Turn Back Time. Lyrics: “If I could turn back time.”

  • Guns N’ Roses—It’s So Easy, My Michelle, Patience. Roses and Patience, my parakeet.

  • Alice Cooper— Poison. Poison bottle with his iconic eye/makeup.

  • Genesis— Land Of Confusion. Atomic bomb and Genesis logo.

  • Paula Abdul—Cold Hearted. Her hat from the video.

  • Poison— Every Rose Has Its Thorn & Your Mama Don’t Dance. Poison love note on spelling test paper.

  • Def Leppard—Pour Some Sugar On Me and Love Bites. Sugar out of a glass and shark tooth with a heart.

  • Boy George— Karma Chameleon & The Crying Game. His hair with ribbons.

  • Chris Isaak—Wicked Game. Beach and waves from the video.

  • Love and Rockets—So Alive. Leg, long brown hair, stars.

  • Faith No More—Epic. Fish flopping scene from the end of the video.

  • Richard Marx—Hazard. Wheat and drop in the water from the video.

  • Metallica—One. Nurse cap from video/Johnny Got His Gun.

  • Queensryche— Silent Lucidity. Queensryche logo.

  • Gerard McMann—Cry Little Sister—Theme from “Lost Boys.” Keifer Sutherland and Lyrics: “Thou Shall Not Fall.”

  • RHCP— Sir Psycho Sexy. Pepper and stick from lyrics: “She stuck my butt with her big black stick.”

  • Concrete Blonde—Caroline. Roses.

  • AC/DC—You Shook Me All Night Long. American thighs with flag bikini bottom.

  • Madonna—Like A Prayer and Express Yourself. Cross with flames and monocle with gear.

  • The Doors—Light My Fire and Carmina Burana from the film. Door on fire.

  • Queen—Lazing On A Sunday Afternoon. Easel with mustache.

  • Led Zeppelin—Stairway to Heaven. Hedges with Lyrics: “If there’s a bustle in your hedgerow.”

  • Elvis Costello & The Attractions—(I Don’t Want To Go To) Chelsea. Lyrics: “She gave a little flirt gave herself a little cuddle.”

  • Beastie Boys—So What’Cha Want. Money sign “bouncing.”

  • Nirvana—Smells Like Teen Spirit. Kurt from video with Anarchy sign head.

  • Chris Cornell—Seasons from the Singles soundtrack. Blue feathers.

  • Dead Kennedys—Holiday in Cambodia. DK logo with tree.

  • Yusuf/Cat Stevens—Wild World. Lyrics in yellow bubble.

  • R.E.M. – Losing My Religion. Bottle with flame and wings.

  • Sonic Youth—Titanium Expose from Pump Up The Volume Soundtrack (later, Kool Thing and Tunic). Sugar cube in mirror.

3. 8th-9th Grade and 15-17

  • Salt-N-Pep—Shoop. S-N-P shakers.

  • Fleetwood Mac—The Chain. Chain with heart.

  • Blondie—Sunday Girl— the French version specifically. Ice Cream.

  • Janet Jackson—If. Vest/Corset from the video.

  • The Lemonheads—Alison’s Starting To Happen. Lemonhead and puzzle piece with sky.

  • Sassy Magazine Logo. Not a song, but I took their music recs as gospel.

  • No Doubt—Just A Girl. Pink Ribbon.

  • Lisa Loeb—Stay (I Missed You). Purple radio with lyrics: “Lover is crying cause the other won’t stay.”

  • Pixies—I’ve Been Tired. “Breasts like a cluster of grapes.”

  • PJ Harvey. Snake—4-Track Demo Version. Snake between legs.

  • Ani DiFranco—Swan Dive. Tampon and shark fin.

  • Hole—Violet. Violets and stars/black hole.

  • Nine Inch Nails—Gave Up. Vaseline jar.

  • Tori Amos—Bells For Her. Pink cloud with bell. For Gina.

  • Ween—Flies On My Dick. Dick with flies.

  • Crass—Bata Motel. Sex doll from Penis Envy album cover.

  • Violent Femmes—Add It Up. Screw and + signs.

  • Alanis Morrisette—You Oughta Know. Nails scratching.

  • Green Day—Longview. Eyes with X’s.

  • Dar Williams—The Christians and the Pagans & Alleluia. Christmas tree with pagan sign and fluorescent lei.

  • Counting Crows—Anna Begins. Butterfly pinned to frame.

  • Liz Phair—Fuck and Run. Soda, letter, number 12.

  • Bob Dylan—Black Diamond Bay. Volcano.

  • L7—Wargasm. Grenade with wet drops.

  • Sarah McLaughlin—Hold On. Letter representing my close friend/incarcerated boyfriend, Matt.

  • The Partridge Family—I Think I Love You. Partridge Family bird logo (anachronism/out of time).

  • Bruce Springsteen—I’m On Fire. Daddy with knife and flames.

  • Chet Baker—My Funny Valentine. Purple VDay Heart with “funny” and teardrop.

  • The Police—Don’t Stand So Close To Me. Book with Lolita on it.

  • The Breeders—Cannonball. Splash.

  • Radiohead—Creep. Lyrics: “But I’m a creep.”

  • The Dead Milkmen—Punk Rock Girl. Pink pearl.

  • Talking Heads—Sugar On My Tongue. Tongue with white beads/”sugar.”

  • Creedence Clearwater Revival—Fortunate Son. Silver spoon.

  • k.d. lang—Constant Craving. Magnet with word “truth.”

  • Bikini Kill— Suck My Left One. Boob with light bulb.

  • Richard Thompson—1952 Vincent Black Lightning. Motorcycle.

  • Alanis Morrisette— Hands Clean. Lyrics: “If it wasn’t for your maturity.”

  • David Bowie— Suffragette City. Ticket.

  • Dire Straits—Skateaway. Rollerskate.

  • Rolling Stones—Shattered.  “Glass” around motorcycle.

  • Edwyn Collins—A Girl Like You from Empire Records soundtrack. Baby blue crop sweater Liv Tyler wore in the film.

  • Walk On the Wild Side— Lou Reed. Holly and piece of candy.

  • Poe— Trigger Happy Jack. Bullet with wetness. One of my songs for my mom’s abusive boyfriends.

  • Rocky Horror Picture Show—Sweet Transvestite and Touch-A, Touch-A, Touch Me. Frankenfurter; hairdryer and Mickey ears.

  • Blatz—Lullabye. Eye with stars in it.

  • Butthole Surfers—The Wooden Song. Lyrics: “Lately I’ve been dancing in ceiling fans.”

  • Babes in Toyland— Istigkeit. Lyrics: “I breathe I dream I lead.”

  • Spitboy— What Are Little Girls Made Of?” Lyrics: “Swaddled in red like a target.”

  • Weezer— Say It Ain’t So. Lyrics: “Say it ain’t so.”

  • Underworld— Born Slippy. Lipstick boy.

  • They Might Be Giants— Particle Man. Little triangle figure.

  • The Runaways— Cherry Bomb. Tiny cherries with explosions.

4. 18-22

  • TLC— Waterfalls. Waterfall crashing over Suffragette City ticket.

  • Tool— 46 + 2. Lyrics. “I wanna know what I’ve been hiding in my shadow.”

  • Indigo Girls— Closer Than Fine. Diploma with lyrics: “He graded my performance.”

  • DMB— Grace is Gone. Whiskey in a glass.

  • Tom Waits— Frank’s Wild Years. Sign “Wild Years” hanging from a nail.

  • Leonard Cohen— Seems So Long Ago, Nancy. Green stockings.

  • Fiona Apple— Paper bag. Paper bag with apple on it.

  • Nick Drake— Pink Moon. Pink moon.

  • Melissa Etheridge— No Souvenirs. Telephone booth with street lamp.

  • The Rolling Stones— She’s A Rainbow. Small rainbow.

  • R.E.M—Try Not To Breathe. Pink Lungs.

  • The Cure— Edge Of The Deep Green Sea. Green sea with sand under lungs.

  • Suzanne Vega. Soap and Water and Widow’s Walk. Head full of bees with ocean waves and a kite.

  • Nelly Furtado— Turn Off The Light. Boxing Gloves with lyrics: “Tough tough tough.”

  • Butch and Animal— Traffic and Best Cock On the Block. Traffic light flanked by two dildos.

  • The Smiths— How Soon Is Now? Lyrics: “I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar.”

5. Coming Out

  • The Cure— Love Cats. Pink and black cats with intertwined tails.

  • Tracy Chapman— Smoke and Ashes. Pile of ashes with smoke.

  • Allman Brothers Band— Whipping Post. Whipping post.

  • Postal Service— Clark Gable. Movie marker with text referring to Casey and our relationship.

  • Metric— Combat Baby. Combat boot with blue “light.”

  • The Killers— Somebody Told Me. Androgynous faces with the same hair and “Feb” and “Last Year.”

  • Modest Mouse— Float On. Mouth blabbing “Blah blah blah.”

  • Death Cab For Cutie— Soul Meets Body. Greyhound logo.

  • Patti Smith— Gloria: In Excelsis Deo. Red parking meter.

  • Benny Benassi— Satisfaction. Button to push with “wet” drops.

  • Patty Griffin— Making Pies. Table Talk pie.

  • Gillian Welch— One More Dollar. Pine tree with dice.

  • Yeah Yeah Yeahs— No No No and Pin. Clock with “ice” and push pin.

  • Melissa Ferrick— Willing to Wait. +1.

  • Laura Viers— Parisian Dream. Hands cupped with light/flame.

  • Cat Power— He War. Needle with thread.

  • Alison Krauss— Lucky One. Horseshoe.

  • Gravy Train— Tittie’s Bounce. Boobs in green bikini top.

  • Coldplay— Warning Sign. Bubbles bursting.

  • Blur— Girls & Boys. Lyrics: “Girls who want boys who do boys like they’re girls.”

  • Dido— White Flag and Who Makes You Feel. White flag and Lyrics: “Who makes you feel?”

6. 27-35

  • Heartless Bastards— Into the Open. Field/meadow of green with blue sky.

  • Neko Case— Hold On, Hold On. Lyrics: “The most tender place in my heart is for strangers.”

  • TV On The Radio— Wolf Like Me and Ambulance. Moon and crutch.

  • Fischerspooner— Everything To Gain. Odyssey graphic/logo.

  • Lovers— Igloos For Ojos. Igloo with eye and heart.

  • Magnetic Fields— The Death of Ferdinand de Saussure. Bulldozer with an orchid.

  • Crystal Castles— Untrust Us. Castle made of beads with Bates College mascot, bobcat.

  • Santigold— L.E.S. Artistes. Gold “blob” like on the album cover with lyrics: “If I could stand up mean for all the things that I believe.”

  • The National— Brainy and Slow Show. Blue ribbon around a brain.

  • MIA— Come Around. Dollar sign on a hook.

  • Feist— Brandy Alexander. Brandy Alexander drink.

  • JD Samson & MEN— Credit Card Babies. Sontag in the crib.

  • Lady Lamb— Bird Balloons. Balloon with birds in it.

  • Fred Astaire—Babbitt and the Bromide. Tap shoe.

  • EMA— California and Butterfly Knife. Butterfly knife with blood.

  • Thao & The Get Down Stay Down— Swimming Pools. Bee surrounded by blue.

  • Flight Facilities, Giselle— Crave You. Heart in silver cage.

  • Alt-J— Something Good. Bullhead with blood.

  • of Montreal— The Past Is A Grotesque Animal. Anatomical eye.

  • Mykki Blanco— Waavy. Purple Waves.

  • Lady Gaga— Bad Romance. Shoe from video.

  • Arcade Fire— Neon Bible. Bible with neon light radiating form it.

  • Alela Diane— The Way We Fall. Cigarettes burning.

  • Dark Dark Dark— Patsy Cline. Jukebox with lyrics: “And we’d slow dance to Patsy Cline at the bar.”

  • Rilo Kiley— A Better Son/Daughter. Telephone.

  • Wye Oak— If Children Were Wishes. Dollar sign, heart, peace sign.

  • Slothrust— Crockpot. Crockpot.

  • Lucius— Turn it Around. Telescope.

  • Mirah— 24th Street. Street sign.

  • Shovels & Rope— Birmingham. BQE sign.

  • Iceage— Morals. Lyrics: “Where’s your morals?” 

7. 35-43

  • Kate Bush— Cloudbusting. Cloud with yoyo and rain.

  • Lia Ices— Creature. Wolf howling with flowers coming out of its mouth.

  • Wolf Parade— I’ll Believe In Anything. Olive branch.

  • Lower Dens— I Am the Earth. Earth with “I AM.”

  • Angel Olsen—White Fire and Creator, Destroyer. White flame with lyrics: “Murderous bitch I am out of my mind.”

  • Phosphorescent—Terror In the Canyon. Tiger and snake.

  • Mitski— First Love/Late Spring. Black hole behind a window.

  • Kississippi— Cut Yer Teeth. Tooth and diamond.

  • Du Blonde— After the Show. Hotel sign.

  • Jenny Hval— Conceptual Romance. Face “high on madness” with lyrics: “I lose myself in the rituals of bad art, in failure.”

  • Perfume Genius— Queen. Crown with “disease.”

  • Phoebe Bridgers—Motion sickness. Car window handle and vomit.

  • Haley Heynderickx— The Bug Collector. Praying mantis.

  • Father John Misty— Chateau Lobby #4 (in C for Two Virgins). Piano.

  • Big Thief— Masterpiece and Not. Coffee mug with “NOT” on it.

  • Andrew Bird— Sisyphus. Lyrics: “Sisyphus peered into the mist.”

  • Songs: Ohio— Farewell Transmission. Beak with blood on it and small moon behind it.

  • Regina Spector— Laughing With.  Genie bottle with “hahahaha” coming out of it.

  • Hop Along— Not Abel. Bloodstain.

  • Slothrust— New Red Pants. Red pants.

  • Caroline Rose— Jeannie Becomes A Mom. Blue apple.

  • Dilly Dally— Sober Motel. Bottle with XXX label.

  • Otis Redding— (Sittin’ On) the Dock of the Bay. Dock with water.

  • Petey— Lean Into Life. Key.

  • Iron & Wine, Ben Bridwell— This Must Be The Place. Lyrics: “Out of all those kinds of people, you got a face with a view.”

  • Florence + The Machine— King. Crown.

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